Lady Dumps her Boyfriend After Sending Her To School And Spending Over 3 Million On Her education

I received this chat this morning and was very dumbfounded as this guy was in severe emotional pain and trauma of being jolted after investing so much into his woman. He picked her up when she was down in the dumps, living life with no glimpse of hope, and saw her through school even after setting up a business for her, only for her to get done from school and shatter his heart.

Who do you blame?

I’ll give a critical analysis this case.
First off, I have always told men that what ever you do in a relationship should be out lobe and not the desire to make a woman marry you. If you want to send her to school, send her to school because you want to give her an education, not because you want her to marry you. If you want to start a business for her, do it out of compassion not the promise of marriage. Marriage should never be an appreciation scheme; marriage should be a way of expressing gratitude. Don’t do what you can’t write off in a relationship! This is a lesson most men fail to learn — no woman owes you marriage because you invested in her! Do it without any selfish interest.

The truth is that sometimes these men meet these young girls when they are naive, and then invest in them — as they grow and evolve and explore life, they find out what they really want which in some cases, the man who helped doesn’t fit into their specification.

Yes, some women are also deceitful; they agree to marriage terms as the man invests in them, only for them to milk the man’s resources and then jolt him.
This is why it’s important that when a man starts showering you with gifts, always ask his intention and be clarified. Know his expectations from you; let him know that you are not obliged to marry him because of his investments in your life.

Lady Dumps her Boyfriend After Sending Her To School And Spending Over 3 Million On Her education

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