Popular Nollywood actress Taiwo Ajai-Lycett has narrated touching story of becoming a mom at 15, dropping out of school at 16

Popular Nollywood actress shares touching story of becoming a mom at 15, dropping out of school at 16

Famous Nollywood actress, Taiwo Ajai-Lycett has narrated her touching story of becoming a mother at the tender age of 15 and dropping out from school at 16.


The 79-year-old recipient of the Officer of the Order of the Niger (OON), made the revelation in a recent interview with TheNation, where she also mentioned that she became a widow at 52 and raped at the age of 65.


She said: “I have been through the fire, I emerged fortified. I was 15 years old when I had a child. By 16, I was on my own. I knew I was going to get a good education. I was going to be a lawyer.


But I knew that I was on my own. My family disowned me. I married one David Akinduro in 1959 after I relocated to the U.K, but I left him due to domestic violence.
“I met Thomas Lycett long after I divorced my first husband. Eventually I married him. We had a blissful marriage. He died when I was 52-years-old. I remember him everyday.


He was the one that told me that I was better off being an actor. In 2006, I was robbed and raped in my house in Egbe. I was tied. I was beaten. I was brutalized. My health was ruined.
“I was blindfolded and raped. The man who raped me complained that he couldn’t gain easy entry into me because I wasn’t wet. I told him ‘widows don’t get wet’.
I kept talking to them and asked them repeatedly, ‘Are you doing this to your mother?’ Angrily, they taped my mouth but I remained fearless and prayed all through the attack.


The police came. They expected me to pursue the case. I knew the masterminds. I could have gotten them incarcerated but I simply moved on.
“Look at me today, I am over it. See, the mind is a beautiful thing. When you hold on to past hurt, you tie yourself down to grief. You get infected with its poison.
Rather than wallow in grief and self-pity, I picked myself up and sought medical help, ensuring that they hadn’t infected me with any STD.. That same year, the Obasanjo government got me the Officer of the Order of the Niger (OON) national honour.
“Few years later, One of them came to prostrate before me, pleading for my forgiveness. I told him to seek forgiveness from God. I told him that I had moved on,” she said.

Popular Nollywood actress Taiwo Ajai-Lycett has narrated touching story of becoming a mom at 15, dropping out of school at 16

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